This
author talks in detail about the plans and hardships on finding economical and
suitable housing and then without pause begins the uphill battle of seeking
employment near this prized “economical” housing she has discovered. I must say
I am touched by her desire to dive right in regardless of the mud and mess she
encounters. All in an effort of dispelling the myths, misconceptions and stereo
types of the working class poor.
She has
me and I am intently hanging on to her every word. Pause. Rewind. Stop. I do
not know what happened everything was going so well. Somehow, I have just been
sucker punched and my desire to learn more about nickels and dimes is no longer
present. The rug has just been pulled out from underneath me and for no reason
at all. I do not understand why this paragraph, which does not really fit into
this storyline, is here. Somewhere in
this book about poverty, she speaks of one day after work looking for something
to do that would not cost money. She happens to notice a church service, taking
place across the way so she decides to attend. After this excerpt in the book,
all I hear is anger, criticism and judgement. She begins judging another type
of human. Which I am baffled by. You cannot or rather you should not honor one
human and in the same breath dishonor another merely by how he or she believes.
My heart
hurts as she slyly begins to take a dig at Christianity. I continue reading
even though I am jabbed from time to time. I think the perception here may be
if you have met one Christian, you have met them all. The misconception is if one
Christian behaves badly they all behave badly. These misconceptions of Christians
are similar to those of people living in poverty. This is as absurd as saying because
you have known one person in poverty taking advantage of the system they are
all taking advantage of the system. Just not, so on both accounts.
If you
know me you probably know I love Jesus. I am a Christian and the very thing
that enables me to love my neighbor is the God I serve. I work hard to dispel
myths, misconceptions and stereo types about people living in poverty. Actually, I consider it my life’s work
(Isaiah 61) and I do this because I am a Christian. These hostile
characterizations and judgmental bigotries people have placed on me because I
am a Christian are just not so. Yes, some people misrepresent Christianity but
not all people do.
Yes, some
Christians sit on the sidelines while some of us are working hard out on the
field, others are coaching and calling plays and yet others sit injured in the
locker room (sometimes injury caused by their fellow Christians). Some have
just been recruited while others are beginning their first day of basic
training. What is often excluded is the truth about how so many of these
Christians are out there making touchdown after touchdown. Yet more often than not,
we are all judged as if we were all that one foul mouthed player waiting to be
sentenced for all his unspeakable crimes. The Jesus I serve is perfect not the
people that serve him. I do not say this to give a pass to unsavory behavior displayed
at times by us Christians in “training”. I say this because no one is perfect
Christian or not.
My
takeaway from this book has nothing to do with poverty but rather it has
affirmed that we as people will judge those we do not understand. I am a
Christian and in love I say to those who judge me for being a Christian, your
judgments, stereotypes and misconceptions are just not so of me. If you would
take the time to get to know me, you would learn that I am not a person that
hates this party or that party even though some that call themselves Christians
do. If you would take the time to get to know me, you would learn that I am not
for children being separated from their mothers even though some of the people
in the political party I am affiliated with may be. If you would take the time
to get to know me, you would learn that I do not hate nor judge people that
believe different than I do even though some that call themselves Christians
do. If you would take the time to get to know me, you would learn that I do not
hate because the color of your skin maybe different from mine even though some
that call themselves Christians do.
I no longer want to learn about nickels
or dimes.
I want to teach,
how to love,
with Love,
all people.